Attachment style test
Ten questions about what you actually do when closeness gets uncertain. Not what you believe about yourself, what you do.
A mirror, not a measurement. Ten honest questions, no account, nothing saved.
WHAT YOU LEAN TOWARD
You lean anxious-attached
The pattern here is reaching. When closeness gets uncertain, you move toward it: you check, you reread, you ask a version of the question sideways so it does not sound like asking. The reaching is not the problem in itself. It is that it usually costs you the thing you were reaching for, because the other person feels the pull rather than the need underneath it.
It tends to show up in the gap between what you say and what you mean. You want to say I am scared you are going. What comes out is something about the tone of their last message. Then you are having the small argument instead of the real one, and the reassurance you actually needed never arrives.
Underneath it is usually one sentence, older than this relationship, about what your needing means. Most people who lean this way can find that sentence in about ten minutes, and have never once said it out loud.